I don’t know
And if I admit I don’t know, it’s a pretty big thing. I was one kind of poly(amorous), and now I might be a different kind altogether - the kind of a fiercely territorial, fiercely sensitive and selective woman who can’t abide wasting her time anymore, and who can’t take the overwhelm of insensitive people and places. I’ve never been all that frivolous, so why would I think I could love frivolously or casually? There are few places I belong, and few people around whom as well.